While others might think you've got it all figured out (or that you will), you've been feeling increasingly stressed,
anxious or empty, heavy, sad or hopeless, not sure what's right anymore...
Your shoulders are tense, your breathing is shallow, your inner world in chaos.

Breathe... I am here for you. Let's walk together, through this stage.

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Welcome - This is me

Feminist, intuitive and creative are all words that seem to fit, even though at times something more conventional would be easier. 

I spent the first 30 years of my life trying to save the world by attempting to fix the outside. I'd like to spend the next 30 years trying to expand the world by unravelling gifts on the inside. 

Born in the Netherlands to parents who love to travel, I grew up on beaches, deserts and expat compounds - learning to call everywhere my home. 

Life lead me to transform multiple times. And while it may have looked like loss, disruption or failure on the outside, it's always brought me closer to my self.

"I [now] feel like there is a net out there, to catch me if I wobble or stumble."


"She asked the right questions at the right time, did not judge me, and she helped me to come to my own realisations (sometimes freakishly quickly too).”

Esta Tonkin
Etsy shop owner

"The world's best listener. You're able to understand and explain emotions so rationally."

Finance Specialist
The Netherlands

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Doe Mee Met Sisterhood

Je denk misschien dat jij de enige bent die zich overweldigd of vertwijfeld voelt, of op een kruispunt staat. En toch zijn er zo vele anderen! Als je behoefte hebt aan een regelmatig momentje rust, te kunnen delen en je verbonden te voelen met andere vrouwen, dan is Sisterhood voor jou. Meer…

Boek een 1-op-1 Sessie

Ben jij op zoek naar iemand waar je ongestoord je hart bij kan luchten, mee kan reflecteren, die er voor je kan zijn en wellicht een ander perspectief kan bieden? Ik ben er voor je – ongeacht hoe jij je voelt of wat er gaande is. Het begint met het boeken van een eerste sessie, om me toe te laten tot jouw wereld. Meer…

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When You’re Feeling Exhausted…

When you’re feeling exhausted, you feel as if you’re pressed down by an invisible heaviness that no amount of sleep can take away. You’ve tried to push through, to motivate yourself, to sign up for new things, even if a part of you silently screamed ‘no’ in the background. You’ve tried running, yoga, painting, breathing, […]

Recalibrate & Reconnect: 2017 Midyear Survey

Dear you, I hope you are doing well – wherever you are. If you are not doing well – know that anything you are experiencing or feeling is welcome. In my experience working with women (and some men) in transition (and on myself!) over the last few years, I’ve learned that no inner or outer […]

When You Judge Reaching out for Help (and What You Can Realistically Expect From a Coaching Session)…

When You Judge Reaching Out For Help. A sense of isolation. Feeling wooden, caught in a self-created straightjacket. The experience that you’re deeply alone, struggling to stay afloat, yet not reaching out for help, because you’re only barely holding on now. And yet, among it all, a slight sense of superiority, that you are here […]

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