While others might think you've got it all figured out (or that you will), you've been feeling increasingly stressed, anxious or empty, not sure how to move forward. Your shoulders are tense, your breathing is shallow, your inner world is rattled.


You've got everything you need within you. But knowing this doesn't make your fears go away.

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Welcome - This is me

Feminist, intuitive and creative are all words that seem to fit, even though at times something more conventional would be easier. 

I spent the first 30 years of my life trying to save the world by attempting to fix the outside. I'd like to spend the next 30 years trying to expand the world by unravelling gifts on the inside. 

Born in the Netherlands to parents who love to travel,  I grew up on beaches and deserts, in suburban Dutch neighbourhoods abroad and at home.

Love lead me to Frankfurt, Germany, where I now try to be and create the roots I seek.  


"I [now] feel like there is a net out there, to catch me if I wobble or stumble."


"She asked the right questions at the right time, did not judge me, and she helped me to come to my own realisations (sometimes freakishly quickly too).”

Esta Tonkin
Etsy shop owner

"The world's best listener. You're able to understand and explain emotions so rationally."

Finance Specialist
The Netherlands

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Holding Space for Uncertainty.

Lying in bed, I found myself caught in a trance of uncertainty, and, as a result, panic. Thoughts, and ‘what if?’ questions flew through my head that I did not want to have, not now, not after the relaxing weekend I’d had. My heart tried to calm the fearful thoughts that sprung from this moment, […]

Feeling Empty? How to Mindfully Accept, Not Fill It.

A general sensation in your torso that, if it could be described in terms of a shape, would be concave. A quiet howl from within, never really heard, but always somewhat present. An empty space that, if it had a hand, would keep on pointing at itself, crying for attention, desperately wanting to be noticed, to […]

When Things Get Intense…

When nothing seems certain anymore… A sensation of heat, heaviness or groundlessness in your body. A sudden wall going up between you, and those around you, as your inner world takes over, transforming suddenly from a blue sky to a black storm. Just outside of your conscious awareness, multiple emotions and thoughts wrestle for control, as you desperately […]

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